sell our condo and my son work do very well

I am mentally, physically, emotionally exhausted, nothing is working for me, I cannot handle this pressure for my age 71years old. Help with your prayers to sell our condo and move to something smaller, we cannot afford it any longer. Help my son Dan work so he can be financially independent and prosperous, I have been praying for 12 years that nothing is working. Help him and his fiancé get married, be happy and have a wonderful marriage. For my two sons to be very close, it’s killing me inside. They are not close. Help me please, I am begging