well my sister told me I was abad person and her husband because her husband wanted to own my business and tried to cause my husband and I to divorce so he could accompllish this, and I put my foot down and let him go over it. my older brother hates me from wayyyy back , because my dad used to get drunk and beat on him instead of me because I hid all the time , and that has just escalated into adulthood where he will try to destroy relationships , friendships etc of mine because of jealousy . so I refused to continue footing the bill for him after he threatend to kill me and my family yesterday my little brother got mad at me and said I was a bad person because I wouldnt loan him money I just went and bought what he needed My family is very dysfuntional and most of them are out for what they can get , so I am just really guarded , I help people all the time , if I had a bigger house I would probably bring every stray animal I found home with me , my mom says I have bleeding heart syndrome ...