Boundaries For Toxic People

[Jonathan H. B. Lobl]

I used to be a Home Health Aide. One thing I learned -- the nearness of death does not change people. If anything, they become more of what they are. Death does not change the personality. Sometimes, people get meaner.

Do not bring these people together. You think things are bad now? Wait till you see the explosion of venom that will follow, if these two meet under these conditions.

Please, leave bad enough alone.

[toktu]

it saddens me, that we as a people , often take our own trials to the grave unresolved. That's the nature of being human. That being said, depending on the faith of the patient, you could try confessional . Let them guide their self towards the realization that they have too many bags to carry on. And let the spirits do the rest. You can led a horse to water but you can not make him drink.