Rev.Fred

Yeah I know what you both are saying.....dang hormones I'm just havin a rough go at it...but hearing what you all have said has really helped me to calm down so I thank you both.....

Nice...

Not the words but the feelings along with it. To understand the pain of being pregnant I wrote no offense to try and be polite..wasn't trying to attack and was making sure that was clear Yes I am but my boobs don't wiggle and jiggle with delight like that...sorry...

I've had PPD with all of my children. It's not their place but they still do...I just wrote what I wrote to vent....Im not usually the type to shout on the roof tops or pretend that I am a rock..if it hurts it hurts...

Yeah the la leche league upped the age of breastfeeing to 7 I believe. It does sting when people say that you don't "earn" your child by natural birth and breastfeeding. I couldn't breastfeed my first because we both got an infection and almost died and yet I was still lectured for not breastfeeding her so I can definitely sympathize with your wife.

Put herself through or was told by others who had?

Because it makes you feel like a failure when you don't even attempt it and all you hear is oh you wouldn't know you never gave birth naturally....People question your value as a human being based on it...

And that's what I mean....I've never had a "natural" and this child is my last chance to try. Im eligible but it's easier for everyone else concerned for a repeat c-section.....and even though a man may be a father he does not know how painful a decision like that is for a woman...take my chances at trying or spending the rest of my life feeling "incomplete".

No but having the choice of how you want to have the child can be....it's easier to have a cesarean for everyone else because you know when the baby is coming but the mother misses out on the experience and I don't feel that it's fair to brow beat a mother into a cesarean just because it makes it more convenient for you.

I think having your heart crushed during pregnancy for the sake of another's convenience is not something that you can really know unless you have gone through it.....

Yes I will proudly admit that I've never screamed hey baby lookie here I made a coat rack.......

I'd say yeah to the stereotyping because I have yet to see a pregnant man other than Arnold and that was a scary thought even if it was fictional......... And yes, as a woman there are certain things I wouldn't understand that a man would...I've never had an erection, I've never been a father, I've never scratched my boys.......you get what Im saying?

How is it sexist??? "I want to be called Loretta. And I want to make babies" "How can you make babies when you have no womb for it to gestate?"- Life of Brian

The strong part I could see Chico but you are a man.....no offense but, you really wouldn't understand.

No Prob

Don't know if I already posted but...I joined because I felt that's what She wanted from me.....

Just lie back. Relax. Here the first breaths of life. No screaming. No pain. Tropical Paradise or personal Hell. Drug her up so her cries will be muffled. Let's watch her dying with delight. Ruined dreams fading with every tear. Let's crush her soul for the sake of convenience...... Don't worry if you miss out on the fun... there will always be another day to make her suffer. after the sorrow comes the joy but it will be more sorrow for her in the end to watch them fly away... Thank you ....without you....she would be.........Happy.

Nice page.....Music was good.

I think that the type of music and movies a person likes really speaks volumes about the person. What bands or movies do you like, love, or can't live without?

Always gotta be stealing my thunder don't cha? Maurice and the Zodiacs "stay" Randy and the Rainbows "denise"

Now if we were doing this solely about the 80's I think the list would be harder for people who weren't one hit wonders... Lipps inc. "funkytown"

I remember those songs.... Vicki Lawrence..."the night the lights went out in georgia"

yay do I get any points??? "punk rock girl" dead milkmen "our house" madhouse "i don't like mondays" boomtown rats. don't know if this counts..... mojo nixon "elvis is everywhere"

No go to any rural part of florida......you will find them......it struck there and stayed like the plague.....don't stand too close or you might just get infected.....

You do realize I hate you now....lol Seriously. I grew up in the south. It got to the point were you'd go to a nature park and they call the trees a billy ray cypress. You couldn't walk anywhere without seeing men, women, and children with mullets and every place had that song playing...even in elevators...evil I say Evil!!!!!!