Thanks to you both, for enthusiasm and blessings -and it was amazing! I love my daughter, and oh yes, my new son-in-law - so much and was humbled and honored (not even the right words) when she told how much it would mean to her if I offered the blessings and officiated for them. I am a Teacher/Social Worker by trade, don't particularly love public speaking, have no (tangible) affiliation with any church, am not a Judge or Steamboat Captain, and am, quite frankly, pretty shy. But after all is said and done what an experience - a spirit does move you when you speak to something so huge, so solemn, really. risteen - the Native ceremonies are truest to my heart, they are as you say, 'beautiful and honest" - how I like to see the world, what I believe in and what speaks to my heart and surely, what I wish for my sweet girl the Apache Blessing is a perfect example, speaking to the two in a few short paragraphs the lesson of life/love so get to stepping there, I can only imagine the magic you will find, I might even look myself