Actually, I am not poly , but I am greatly researching the lifestyle and have found it thoroughly interesting. The Ethical Sl/ut was an interesting and quite informative read. The authors' perscpective significantly freer than the other books I have read. I am reading the Pagan Poly and it has another perspective and some very useful advice in it. A practical book from what little I have read. I have already ordered 5 ULC seminary courses and look to finish the Pagan Poly book this week. So much to learn so little time. I am hoping to make myself available in the future for pagan, poly, and same-sex rites.