Mike, I just recently became ordained and reading this forum has given me a better understanding on how others view this step. I personally see great value in what you have identified as a calling. Assisting the families of those who are soon to pass is a great step. Like you said, sometimes they are the ones that need more help than those who are about to pass. Whether your calling is spiritual, Christian, or non-denominational, a man of spirit, regardless of its base is always comforting to people who are hurting. There is a great need for people who comfort and for those who do it with