Kimmy
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wait, how does a corpse, other than your own that is, belong to you ?!?
If cannibalism were legal in the United States then I imagine lawful ownership of a corpse would be given to the person responsible for the funeral services, burial and/or cremation, such as a surviving spouse or relatives.
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I support cannibalism, with a few restrictions. If the corpse lawfully belongs to you, in my opinion, you should be able to treat it as your possession. Eat it, have sex with it, I don't care. If it belongs to someone else, it would be stealing to "use" it. Having said that, I believe most human bodies are incredibly toxic and might not be healthy for human consumption.
As an aside, Ed Gein was quite resourceful with his use of corpses. Although, to my knowledge, none of them were lawfully his. I am still incredibly curious about what he planned to do with those 9 vulvae in a shoebox. Perhaps make a sash to wear with his nipple belt?
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To tell you the truth--there should be some kind of law as not to preach an exclusive belief--all should be inclusive-.
Which is your belief. So, everyone should believe what you believe? That is exactly what the so-called "exclusive" religions preach.
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I seriously doubt this is something that will actually happen. However, if it were possible, I believe I would participate.
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good and evil are human constructs.
Agreed.
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Yes, I miss those folks. But rules are rules, and personal decisions are personal decisions.....
*nods*
I believe that is what it comes down to, regardless of how I personally feel about someone.
But was Hyper Real really banned?
His profile currently lists him as “banned”.
I do not mean to sound vague but that is the only thing I am comfortable saying about it because it is public knowledge. I believe even ex-members deserve the same right to their privacy as current members regarding the details of warnings, suspensions, and/or banishments.
Must have been recent..... I always cringe at the thought, even when I know such a decision is necessary.
Unless someone appears to be a genuine safety concern or a spammer/bot, I am almost always uncomfortable about them being banned.
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I don't know about the rest of you, but this forum used to be much more exciting, engaging, diverse and stimulating. Tolerant might be a term used loosely at various times over the years......
I agree that the diversity seems to be lacking.
Some of my favorite engaging and stimulating posters either left or barely post.
oO(I’m looking at you, Henry/hlange, Mike/Tallmilke, Ken/simplicitys-brother, Verisoph, and Visam)I am sure there are more...
Also, some of the more “exciting” people (Trevor/Clueless Git, JohnE, fruitloup, Lord Occultis, Old Nick, and Hyper Real) were banned.
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My husband is solidly atheist and I am solidly (lol) agnostic.
That sounds like me and my ex life partner.
Our daughter is nearing three years old, and since my mom watches her two afternoons a week, she is starting to pick up on some of the Jesus/God/Heaven references.
My response is to explain that many people believe many different things, and that Grandma believes that there is a Jesus and a God and a Heaven, and to give basic details about what those things mean. Additionally I explain that some people aren't really sure (like mommy) and some people do not believe in any such thing (like Daddy) and many people believe all sorts of other variations. Which, I feel, is an accurate and honest and age appropriate answer.
I have a similar situation with my son and mother. Like you, I keep an open dialogue about religion (and just about everything else).
My husband's response is typically something like "It's all a bunch of made up stories and it's all pretty ridiculous."
My ex life partner usually opens with “In this world, there are carnies and rubes…” and then goes on to explain how all believers are rubes. He tends to use that analogy for both political and religious discussions.
I find this problematic, because I hope to raise humans (we additionally have a son on the way) who can be respectful of the beliefs of others even when they do not share them.
I used to feel that way until I realized that my opinion is still just a belief which, by my own standards, should be treated equally to my ex life partner’s. Basically, I had to learn to be tolerant of intolerance.
But enough about me, yes? Those of you in similar situations, how do you navigate them?
I encourage my son to explore his own spirituality, without forcing him in a particular direction. Likewise, I allow others in his life teach him their beliefs as they see fit.
How do you encourage your children to explore concepts of religion and spirituality to arrive at what feels best for them, while not trying to sway them too hard one way or another, and in such a way that they develop respect for the diversity in beliefs they are bound to encounter?Since some believe is it their spiritual responsibility to guide (force) their children down a specific religious path, I think you should remove the word, “How” from the beginning of the sentence to make it less presumptuous.
As Josh said, Atheists can be as challenging as Religious fanatics in their "I am right and this is the only right answer" position. He has become a much more staunch non-believer in the last couple of years, which has been interesting to watch unfold.
As can agnostics, with their “I am open minded and respectful, so you should be too” position. I used to be that way and, in retrospect, I was no different than any other “fanatic”.
Self-proclaimed “tolerant” people often believe they are tolerant because they are open minded, which is a logical fallacy. I believe this is because people confuse acceptance and tolerance.
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This is partly why simplicities-brother has decided to back away, and why I seldom post here anymore.
Completely understandable but also a shame, in my opinion.
Now isn't THAT a statement to ponder!!!
“Lady, people aren’t chocolates. Do you know what they are, mostly? Bastards. Bastard coated bastards with bastard filling. But I don’t find them half as annoying as I find naive, bubble headed optimists who walk around vomiting sunshine.” (Dr. Cox)
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I generally do not post in these “I’m leaving” threads. Perhaps because I cannot remember ever having felt the need to publically announce my own departure from a community.
I find it unfortunate that you would apologize for “being too blunt” because, while you and I might be considered polar opposites on many subjects, I have both respected and enjoyed your straightforwardness.
In my opinion, you leaving would be a shame; if for no other reason than your beliefs are grossly underrepresented here on the ULC forum.
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All my best to the couple, their friends, and family.
(And welcome back, Neks!)
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Kimmy, did your mint plant get kind of skinny and discoloured in the stalks, just above the soil in the pot, before it died?
If so, it may be a condition called 'damping off'. I've had a few promising plants die of it. It's caused by fungal infections in the soil, which usually originate due to poor hygiene in the place that sold the plant (or the place they bought the plant from themselves - it's always good to buy as far up the supply chain as you can). It's worse with indoor plants if the place where you put them is a bit humid, and if you water directly into the soil. I stand plants in a plant tray or on a saucer and water into that, instead of into the pot.
My mint plant seemed to die like cut flowers in a vase generally do. Slowly discoloring, wilting, etc. I don't remember if it started just above the soil or not, though.
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I don't want to hurt anybody's feelings, but I cannot imagine why anyone would have a problem growing herbs.
No offense taken here! I think I have whatever the opposite of a "green thumb" is.
My mint plant came in the original packaging, which was a plastic pot. It was vibrant and thriving when I purchased it. I sat it on the table in the kitchen, by the window. It started to die within the week, despite watering it and making sure it had enough sunlight. I have no doubt that it was my error, as I imagine it always is. I am just uncertain as to what I always seem to do wrong
I am hoping that making a garden will end my reign of terror on plants.
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This is some funny **.
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Evidently they take more skill than I have because I killed my parsely plant within 1 week of owning it.
Same for me, but with a mint plant
They seem to die quicker when I pay attention to them.
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Posted with permission from Ed Crain:
COMPANION HERBS
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Chives a good companion for carrots.
(helps drive away rust fly)
Rosemary and Sage deter the Carrot Fly.
Dill is a good companion for Lettuce.
(DO NOT PLANT NEAR CARROTS)
Dill attracts Hover Flies and Predatory Wasps.
(Also attracts Tomato Horn worm so keep away from Tomatoes.)
Dill is also said to enhance the growth of Cabbage.
Chevril deters aphids from lettuce. (likes Shade)
Wormwood is said to repel mice,also repels many insects
including Carrot fly.
Happy Gardening,
Ed.
Thank you, Ed!
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Posted with permission from Ed Crain:
Lettuce
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Lettuce come in many shapes and sizes and can be grown quite easily.
The more traditional types with tightly packed heads are readily available
but the *Gourmet* types of loose leaves come in a variety of leaf shapes
and colours.
Most Lettuce do not like frost and some are prone to *Bolting*
(prematurely going to seed) in hotter climates.
Plant in well drained rich soil and keep well watered.
(The best tasting and crispest lettuce are those that are grown
quickly.)Allowing the soil to dry out will make them bolt or slow
their growth making them tougher tasting and less crisp.
The gourmet types also make an excellent colour border in the
Flower garden,so if space is at a premium for Vegetables grow some in
the flower garden and leave the space for other Vegetables.
In hotter climates plant varieties that are less prone to bolting,
or plant them among taller plants such as Tomatoes or Corn
to give them some shade during the hotter months.
Another advantage oy the loose headed types is that You can pick a few leaves
at a time as they are growing,You dont have to wait for the heads to develop.
Plant lettuce among Your Cabbages to repel the White Cabbage Moth.
Carrots
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Carrots are another Vegetable that comes in many Varieties.
The larger Varieties are good for cutting up for Soups and Stews,
While the Smaller varieties are good to cook whole or eat raw.
Grated raw Carrots are often used in salads and sandwiches.
Plant in good soil with not too much manure.Where leafy vegetables
were grown last season without adding manure is a good spot.
Too much manure grows more top than carrot and can also cause the
root to fork spoiling the appearance and Yeild.
Plant seeds directly in rows where they are to grow, I also sprinkle
Radish seeds with them to help break the surface.
Radishes grow quickly and are picked and eaten before they start to
crowd the Carrots.
Close plant the Carrot seeds and thin out as they Grow ( baby carrots
are delicious raw or cooked.)
For container growing the shorter root varieties are better.
In Australia this includes Early Horn,Baby,and a newer variety
called Tom Thumb (a round ball like root about 1.5 to 2 inches
in Diameter.)
Thank you, Ed!
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Posted with permission from Ed Crain:
Herbs are one of the top gardening options. They don't takea lot of skill to grow and they are the most useful of all
plant groups. For cookery, aromatics, medicine and
decoration, herbs come in useful. From a gardener's
perspective bugs and plant diseases seem to avoid herbs, so
they are close to the perfect choice for the household
garden.
Herbs used for medicinal purposes include garlic, which
can improve cholesterol levels, Echinacea for cold and flu
prevention, and chamomile for stress relief. Many herbs
are used in cooking, the most popular of which include
oregano, rosemary, thyme, dill, and ginger. Both lavender
and mint are popularly used for their fragrances and most
herbs make aesthetically pleasing additions to any garden.
There is a vast array of herbs for the garden, and each
will have it's own needs to learn about. Overall however
your herbs will benefit from good draining soil and
shouldn't receive much fertilizer. To get that all
important drainage in your soil you could incorporate some
rock pieces. If you over fertilize your herbs will be less
flavorsome.
Keeping herbs pruned helps keep them healthy. You should
take out the new buds when you see them. (Unless of course
you regularly use them in your cookery in which case you'll
be doing all the pruning you need.) Herbs are best gathered
before the sun's heat is really felt but after the dampness
of first light. If you pick between these two points you'll
enjoy your herbs all the more because the flavorful oils
are at their best.
With the onset of winter some herbs need to be harvested or
brought under cover. If you choose to harvest then there
are plenty of ways to keep the herbs for a long time. To
begin with always wash and carefully dry the cut herb.
Drying herbs is an old and still popular choice for keeping
picked herbs. The traditional country method is to bunch
the herbs and hang them from the roof beams in a cool,
damp-free, unlit space. If you want a more modern method
then herbs sandwiched between a pair of paper kitchen
napkins can dry out in the microwave. Give them a one
minute blast and then shorter zaps of twenty seconds a time
until you fee they've dried out. They should be a bit
crispy. When it comes to using dried in the place of fresh
in your recipes use about half the amount of dried as
compared to fresh. The most simple thing to do is just to
lay the herb leaves on a tray until the moisture has dried
from them.
Freezing herbs is also a popular method of preservation.
Using a food processor or blender, add a little bit of
water to the herbs, blend, and place the mixture into ice
cube trays. You can then use your herbs, as you need them
by adding the cubes directly to dishes. Another
alternative to the ice cube trays is to put the dried
leaves directly into a freezer bag. Frozen herbs have the
best flavor if used within a few months.
A herbologist is the professional who is best placed to
help you out with selecting a mixture of herbs. Any
herbologist will be able to select the plants you want to
achieve the blend of taste and smell that you have in mind.
Thank you, Ed!
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Thank you so much, Ed!
(I haven't posted anything yet because I'm still clearing out my mom's basement (*sob*) but I had a peek at some of the information and am excited to start a garden with the little man. I'm thinking we'll go a little easy our first run and do some garlic and greens.)
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How is it best to defeat intolerance?
I do not believe it can be defeated.
Is meeting intolerance with more intolerance the answer?
Not for me.
Does tolerating intolerance undermine the goals of tolerance?
In my opinion, it strengthens it.
Is advocating "tolerance" while purposefully being intolerant of a groups belief's hypocrisy?
Yes.
"I support tolerance, but only if you think like me" is this really tolerance?
No. If you believe something, you do not need to 'tolerate' it because you already accept it.
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I was hoping to start a "Grow Your Own Food" thread in the Frugal Corner but, frankly, I am terrible at keeping plants alive. So I was wondering if anyone would be willing to offer some basic tips on starting and maintaining a simple herb or vegetable garden by posting his or her ideas in the Frugal Corner?
The Frugal Corner: http://ulc.net/forum/index.php/forum/134-frugal-corner/
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I miss Henry...
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very true...and what a frightfully boring and unpoetic world it would be if they were all merely water stains and tortillas and not SOSs from a much larger reality....wait a minute, is there any guacamole with all this? Perhaps holy guacamole
*laughs*
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Nope, not in the least.
I think he is referring to the mechanations of the devil kimmy....I tend to agree with him.
the enemy's playbook referred to in the earlier posts.
Thank you for the clarification, though I still do not quite understand what you mean.
I feel the same way when people try to ascribe purely materialistic explanations to miraculous/mystical experiences in any faith context.People see religious symbols everywhere, from water stains to tortillas.
Should We Be Allowed To Intentionally Harm Ourselves?
in Philosophy & Theory
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This brings me back. My beliefs are still the same.
oO(and I miss fruitloup.)