Hi Lordie, You know what has worked for me? e harmony! I met my Malcolm there in July 2007, and we are still together! I would have never run into him on the street of where i live or work, because geographical we did not coincide. My colleague Teri, met her boyfriend on e harmony too. After struggling with dating guys that she met here and there. Her now beau is a pastor, and is sweet, kind and handsome. They've been together for over a year now. AND, my son met his fiance on e harmony too! They would have never met either, for it goes back to people being in spaces that never connect. Erica lived in the Northern Chicago suburbs, and went to school at Loyola Univ (on the extreme East side). She worked full-time and studied half time. We live in the Near West suburbs, and my son went to school also in the Near West Suburbs. He studied full-time and worked 2 jobs. Had it not been for the e harmony, they would have never connected. We, my daughter, Malcolm and I, LOVE Erica! She's an amazing young woman, the sister my daughter always wanted. She loves and understands my son. And Malcolm always says: Gabriel doesn't know how lucky he is to have found her, now, that they are both young and will be able to build a life and a family together. Malcolm was married twice. Both marriages lasted 3 years. Both of his ex-wives left him. He and i have been friends since 2007, and officially became a couple in 2010. So we have been together, as a romantic couple for 3 years. Our relationship is going on to 6 years. That is longer than his marriages, and longer than mine! (i was married to the children's father for 5 years). All the guys i had dated were not interested in a serious relationship. And i don't want a frivolous relationship. If you specifically want a Christian man, there is christian mingle, which is only for Christian singles/couples. e harmony allows for more variety. Don't stop praying! I had felt that God had forgotten to make someone for me! It turned out that we were in different locations, and because we are so compatible and committed, and happy with each other, have made this long distance relationship work! Because we really click together!! Pray about it, and i would recommend trying it out. The worst that could happen is that you do not find anyone. Which by the looks of it, it is already happening. The best that could happen is that you find your soul mate! It has worked for us!!! For real!!! I am not paid to advertise the company!! Blessings!!