I am currently in what I would call an unhealthy relationship. I love this man dearly, and I would think he was "The One" except for a major issue that he chooses not to resolve. I do honestly believe he loves me, but obviously not enough to do what is necessary for our relationship to thrive. (Note the italics above--this is indeed a conscious choice that he absolutely has 100% control of and responsibility for; he just WON'T DO IT. There are no outside factors, no extenuating circumstances, etc.) To be honest, I'm not sure what to pray for myself--for him to resolve this issue, or me to